recently i've been reseraching quite a lot on nlp, and at the same time, im also pretty intrigued by the concept of escapism.

they are two very diverse concepts, in fact, they are opposing in nature and are poles apart, the north pole never meets the south pole kind of thing.

nlp is about being positive in all situations while escapism is a mental diversion from the percieved unpleasant aspects of reality, it can be done by means of recreation, entertainment or even consumption or sex.

have you ever done any?
really?
think again.

these few days, im putting myself on experimenting going thru these 2 deliberation. maybe they both do good?

some argued that escapism robs off pychological maturity, hm.. is it really so? the truth us everyone of us here resorts to some form of escapism before, conciously or subconciously, and with varying magnitude.

bring yourself back to a time when you were still a 5-6 year old kid, the time whereby u were biulding a cosy little house of your own, using mattresses blankets, pillows, or even cardboard... and you thought to yourself that will be your little castle and no one is allowed to enter unless you say so, and we just feel happy seeking solace in that little castle of ours.

that in itself is a form of escapism, and kids particularly like to enter into states of escapism partly due to curiousity and partly due to their disillusions of the real world. minus off the curiousity, arent adults the same?

as we grow older, curiousity slowly dies off and we no longer build our little castles and kingdoms... good or bad, you decide.

im sure u have heard of people indulging themselves to overeating after relationships breakoff or even going on a crazy shopping spree after such emotional events took place, isnt that in itself escapism as well? you just have the impetus to wanna break off the link from the real world, and so as to"form" another world of your own...

i dun seldom write long speeches as you would have already found out by my posts, dont you?

oh btw, why do people blog? have it occured to u why? why do we blog? and pple scream, yell, complain, lament about this and that all the time!! "this bitch, that biatch, that idiot and a stupid bus driver uncle who made me wait a seemingly thousand years this morning".

now... later this morning, as of 25 october already(now at 12:57 am), i'm supposed to hand in a Strategy report on eBay global expansion into the world market and emailed it to my friend, recite fluently a malay passage to prof and a start a malay conversation with him in about 11 hrs from now(which i havent even started), a strategy presentation on this Friday, Business process quiz on next tuesday and another international econs test on next wednesday. wow? impressive huh?

now not really, ironically, the impressive thing is not those that ive just mentioned above, but really impressive thing is here i am half lying on my bed spending my ticking time penning down all these despite my unfinished above challenges.

now, isnt it worthwhile writing a long speech to share with you guys a word called "escapism"

if you ask me, is escapisim good or bad?
excessive escapism is addiction. but every you me and him, we all resort to some form of mindful or unmindful escapism...

when was the last time you went on a holiday vacation, and you just forget about every and any other things other than fun? now i dont think that will be called pyschologically immatured...

now, for one more time... when will be the next time you and i need it again? and in what form?

i personally like to be engaged in games, especially those with the killings and the blood oozing
and gushing out from every possible holes that u can find in a human being. and after the killings and the gore, i'm back to the reality world, taking up my pen and paper jotting down my speech for my the presentation... but something in me, the bottled frustration, has gone together with the broken limbs and heads...


hey what about nlp?!

nah... i just used it on you.

im going to be a crackpot soon.. processing too much information in a very short time...

work, assignment, sch, family, relations, friends

great, that only means im gonna get smarter and wiser.

omg girl sang so well today for her compeition! she's my superstar! ;)

so so proud of her.. kekekeke...


"hao xiang zhi dao... ni de yi bai fen hui gei zhe yang de ren..."

kekekekekeke

woot... coach training was great for me.. cool~

;) anchoring state

once, u may ask why 2 person with same qualification can end up in 2 very different outcomes and u cant help and use the "down to luck" factor..

Science. now, it can be mathematically proven it's no longer the "down to luck" factor.

there is this important thing that plays a part if u noe what it is...

things have to change one day, and it did..

hey its my break week! or is it my break weak... !!

ahh.. like me think what happened during these few days

1) i just watched the resident evil and its really nice! go watch go watch, its worth every of your penny!

2) i nearly lost my wallet! and it kinda freaked me out, lol, and also freaked melinda out. puahahahah!

3) i got the flu virus from stupid shenn!!! that girl, took my table to study alrdy, eat my food, and then now pass me the stupid virus! okie, but i still dote her la.

4) studying... but! read half a chapter and goes off to sleep for the next one and a half hrs... bo hua.

5) i miss talking to my ilp kids every week during clearing space! i realized its not just abt them telling me their weekly stuffs, but it was also me telling them abt my stuffs. miss work.

6) scored well for all da tests so far. All quite swee swee wor. but this is only job half done, or 1/4 done. lol. studying also like marathon sia, need stamina and steam. run off steam then drink more gatorade. lame. okie i know. shuddup.

7) okie lets talk abit about mel, although its break week now, but she's really busy with the school stuffs and ltm stuffs. ;) i hope she isnt too stressed and tired... *hugz

8) eight? ah... time for medicine!